Do be faithful in your relationship.
Do respect other's relationship.
Don't cheat.
Don't be a home wrecker.
Don't be a selfish bastard la you fuck.
One of my principles when it comes to relationship: Do not cheat, and do not mess with other's relationship.
I am proud to say that for all this time, I've never go against this principle of mine. I've been tempted before, but I've restrained myself, and I hope that I will never ever cross that line. Still, to anyone out there, here's a quick tip: make sure to make a background check on that person before dating, or else enjoy those malicious fictions about yourself stealing and fucking someone else's boyfriend -_-" <-- Which is pretty stupid, given the predicaments that I've been through. That's why I am holding on to this promise. And please laaa at least make some research or find out both sides of the story before nak aibkan orang if you don't want to end up sounding like retarded circus monkey.
Anyways, back to the topic. People cheat. Why? For various reasons. Kalau nak tau sangat google la, like what you did to find something doubtfully brilliant and witty status on your facebook wall.
These kind of people, they are well aware of the consequences, yet still boldly having affairs with one another, just to satisfy each other's needs. What kind of needs? You can google that too.
Obviously yang aku suruh google bukan the main reason aku nak post pasal benda ni. It's actually about the people who are affected by the selfish actions of their own beloved.
Remember this, you are not only hurting those who you so called love, but others as well.
Sebagai contoh:
You are now in college. You cheated on your girl whom you've known since high school. Your high school sweetheart is heartbroken, shattered into dusts which will eventually be blown away by the soft whispers of the wind and will no longer exist. Her best friends gonna hate you. High school friends gonna hate you. Her parents gonna hate you. Your parents who wants her as an in law gonna hate you.Your college buddies who likes you and your girlfriend together will be appalled by this and they gonna hate you. Your waiter who serves you and your girlfriend on a basis will notice this and he's gonna hate you. Everyone's hates you now. The universe hates you. The higher forces hates you. You too will hate yourself then commit suicide by the overwhelming level of hate.
This applies if your 'real' cayang is not a pain la. Tapi se-pain mana pun pasangan anda, don't you ever resort to cheating. At least break secara berhemah la dulu. Kalau dia tak nak lepaskan jugak, then wave your middle finger goodbye to that nigga.
Okay so contoh tu agak exaggerated tapi, it shows that you will hurt other people too, kan? Trust will not only be shattered between you and your 'loved' one, but the rest too probably will never see you the same way again. So renung-renungkan lah :)
Itu untuk orang kedua. Orang ketiga, you think I'm going to let you get away with it?
Banyak lagi ikan dalam kolam. Serious. Tapi tak tau la pasal lelaki kan, the good ones are either married or gay. Tu la korang risau kan?? Memang patut risau pun. Tapi kadang-kadang kita buta, terlalu leka mengejar apa yang disangkakan baik sehingga tak sedar kebaikan yang mengejar kita.
Satu lagi, what goes around comes around. Kalau orang tu willing ada affair dengan kau, dan kemudian pada satu hari bila affair tu is no longer an affair, bila korang dah official dan dah public, ada kemungkinan dia akan buat benda yang sama dekat kau macam dia dah buat dalam past relationship dia, bukan? It's not only humiliating, but it's heartbreaking too.
Kepada orang yang pertama, the betrayed. Memang sedih, sangat sedih, amat sedih. Tabahkan diri, anggap ianya ujian dari yang Esa. It takes hell of a time and courage to move on. Jangan risau. At least now you know that someone who doesn't belong to a significant place in your life, someone who is beneath you. It's not your fault that you're too good for them. Ceh ayat :P
Another do, do bear in mind, that we're only humans. We make mistakes. Some mistakes can be accepted, but if too much then you can't expect an instant forgiveness kan? Mungkin juga takkan dimaafkan. But from everything we do, we have to learn and grow from it. They say experience is the best teacher. Kalau the best teacher pun tak boleh mengajar kita, tak memberi apa-apa impak, then ntah lah labuuu.
Dengan itu saya ingin mengakhiri post saya buat kali ini dengan lagu Unfaithful dari Rihanna.
Because that's the only songt I can come up
with for now.
It's just baffled me that people are actually using that excuse in order not to be labeled as a liar.
